One of the most satisfying feelings in the world is to love and feel loved.
People come and go. That person may come in your life for just a period of time to teach and learn lessons or that person have come to your life because that person was written in your palm that he/she is really meant for you. Forever.
Forever is a lie. All along, that’s what I believed and I have lived with it for almost all my life. Actually, I really don’t understand what is the meaning of forever. Or what is the importance of that word or what’s the process behind it.
Life is a big playground for everyone and love is the biggest and ultimate game. Everyone plays it, everyone encounters it. And there, you will see that not everyone can win, some have failed or succeeded.
It depends you know. If love is just a one player game, I bet everyone has their own victorious celebration at their own expense.
But no, even life as the playground is useless without love playing inside of it. As life goes on, we meet a lot of people and share happy and sad memories with them.
It’s truly amazing that, for millions of people around the globe, there is only one person whom we will share our whole life and feel the love that can hold ’til forever.
Don’t be afraid to love and feel pain at the same time. When you play love, pain comes in. When you enjoy love, there is happiness. When you cheat love, it will bring you sadness. Love has its own way of teaching each of us on what we should learn.
I have loved and lost somebody and I never regret. I have loved and I have felt pain. Several times. But this doesn’t stop me in moving on with my life.
And now I have realized that it’s not the length of how long you were together in a relationship, but it’s how pure and sincere your intentions and love you have with your partner.
I knew some couples who were together for 10 years or so, yet they did not end up together. Reasons? Environmental forces and change. I know I shouldn’t sum it up as if I am the person in the situation but checking the reality, nothing else but it all boils down into those two words I have mentioned.
And because of this break up, we tend to change. A lot. It can be positive or negative change, I know you know what I mean. Sometimes, the root of the break up triggers our fears and may lead to a bad view to future people who would like to knock and try a chance of being with you. The fear of being in the same situation (as what your ex have done to you) and getting hurt. All over again.
Alright, I am also a victim. It is really difficult to just forgive and forget. I don’t think there’s such thing, you know. It is so impossible to just forget the person who have hurt you, most especially the things he/she did to you after a very good relationship with him/her.
Verdict, it’s either I will just escape people who would like to ask for a chance in showing their good intentions and to show how they love me or preventing them to meet you, so you’ll just have to be at the closet just to protect yourself in pain and judgments.
But you see, life is a big playground and the most exciting part for you to feel the playground is for you to play a good game which is love.
Not because it hurts, doesn’t mean we’re gonna die.
And not because you have hurt because of the past, doesn’t mean present or future person who will ask to share your everyday life is the same as your past.
Nonetheless, for now, enjoy first the process of healing and enjoying a life with no problems but thinking and loving more yourself.
To love and to be loved is the most awesome-st feeling yet the most painful one.
You’ll never know the answer unless otherwise, you have tried it and have a happy life.
And some time in your life, someone will make you realize that…
Forever is real.